"Heightening your awareness through close observation helps you remember what you value about being with children. You can re-enter this precious time of life with a new approach, recognizing how brief it is, and how much you can gain from noticing the details of what is unfolding."
The Art of Awareness, How Observation Can Transform Your Teaching
"Feel positive toward the child with behavior problems. View him as a valuable gift, as he will provide you with an opportunity to learn a great dea. You may learn about the causes of behavior problems, new approaches for helping, the nature of your own biases, new parenting skills, and the availbility of community agencies and resources. He will provide you with a chance to help turn a life around for the better."
Practical Solutions to Practically Every Problem